Not Cis, Just Woman
redlark:

There’s a hole in my lawn and evidently Welly just discovered it’s perfectly dog shaped

"Yes." thinks Welly. "Let them believe it was merely a coincidence. Silly humans."

redlark:

There’s a hole in my lawn and evidently Welly just discovered it’s perfectly dog shaped

"Yes." thinks Welly. "Let them believe it was merely a coincidence. Silly humans."

When illusion spin her net
I’m never where I want to be
And liberty she pirouette
When I think that I am free

Watched by empty silhouettes
Who close their eyes, but still can see
No one taught them etiquette
I will show another me

you + the feminist weedheads tag.

I ship it.

appropriately-inappropriate:

notcisjustwoman:

appropriately-inappropriate:

never-obey:

never-obey:

Bacteroides ureolyticus, Corynebacterium, Enterococcus faecalis, Streptococcus anginosus….

But no Lactobacillus - I wonder why…*eyeroll*

quote: Although this was not a study criterion and therefore not scored, a foul smell of the vagina was observed in most patients.

Eeeeeeeeeeeew.

Who is the “fish” here Mr. Mock? Or should I say Mr. sMOCKma?

If a trans women refers to you as “fish” just link to this.

"There was however a highly significant correlation between the presence of E. faecalis on the one hand and sexual orientation and coitus on the other "

Oh HELL no.

"Like other species in the genus Enterococcus, E. faecalis can cause life-threatening infections in humans.
E. faecalis can cause endocarditis and bacteremia, urinary tract infections (UTI), meningitis, and other infections in humans.”

Yeah, nope. No thanks.

B- B- But ….Toni said that there’s literally no difference between the microflora of a vagina and an inverted penis! Surely this doens’t mean Toni was… gasp…. WRONG??

Yeah, it’s no wonder Arizona hosts the hot air balloon festival. Damn state’s full of hot air for some reason.

appropriately-inappropriate:

never-obey:

never-obey:

Bacteroides ureolyticus, Corynebacterium, Enterococcus faecalis, Streptococcus anginosus….

But no Lactobacillus - I wonder why…*eyeroll*

quote: Although this was not a study criterion and therefore not scored, a foul smell of the vagina was observed in most patients.

Eeeeeeeeeeeew.

Who is the “fish” here Mr. Mock? Or should I say Mr. sMOCKma?

If a trans women refers to you as “fish” just link to this.

"There was however a highly significant correlation between the presence of E. faecalis on the one hand and sexual orientation and coitus on the other "

Oh HELL no.

"Like other species in the genus Enterococcus, E. faecalis can cause life-threatening infections in humans.
E. faecalis can cause endocarditis and bacteremia, urinary tract infections (UTI), meningitis, and other infections in humans.”

Yeah, nope. No thanks.

B- B- But ….Toni said that there’s literally no difference between the microflora of a vagina and an inverted penis! Surely this doens’t mean Toni was… gasp…. WRONG??

TW DOMESTIC ABUSE ——

When [an abusive man] tells me that he became abusive because he lost control of himself, I ask him why he didn’t do something even worse. For example, I might say, “You called her a fucking whore, you grabbed the phone out of her hand and whipped it across the room, and then you gave her a shove and she fell down. There she was at your feet where it would have been easy to kick her in the head. Now, you have just finished telling me that you were ‘totally out of control’ at that time, but you didn’t kick her. What stopped you?” And the client can always give me a reason. Here are some common explanations:

"I wouldn’t want to cause her a serious injury."
“I realized one of the children was watching.”
“I was afraid someone would call the police.”
“I could kill her if I did that.”
“The fight was getting loud, and I was afraid the neighbors would hear.”

And the most frequent response of all:

"Jesus, I wouldn’t do that. I would never do something like that to her.”

The response that I almost never heard — I remember hearing it twice in the fifteen years — was: “I don’t know.”

These ready answers strip the cover off of my clients’ loss of control excuse. While a man is on an abusive rampage, verbally or physically, his mind maintains awareness of a number of questions: “Am I doing something that other people could find out about, so it could make me look bad? Am I doing anything that could get me in legal trouble? Could I get hurt myself? Am I doing anything that I myself consider too cruel, gross, or violent?”

A critical insight seeped into me from working with my first few dozen clients: An abuser almost never does anything that he himself considers morally unacceptable. He may hide what he does because he thinks other people would disagree with it, but he feels justified inside. I can’t remember a client ever having said to me: “There’s no way I can defend what I did. It was just totally wrong.” He invariably has a reason that he considers good enough. In short, an abuser’s core problem is that he has a distorted sense of right and wrong.

I sometimes ask my clients the following question: “How many of you have ever felt angry enough at youer mother to get the urge to call her a bitch?” Typically half or more of the group members raise their hands. Then I ask, “How many of you have ever acted on that urge?” All the hands fly down, and the men cast appalled gazes on me, as if I had just asked whether they sell drugs outside elementary schools. So then I ask, “Well, why haven’t you?” The same answer shoots out from the men each time I do this exercise: “But you can’t treat your mother like that, no matter how angry you are! You just don’t do that!”

The unspoken remainder of this statement, which we can fill in for my clients, is: “But you can treat your wife or girlfriend like that, as long as you have a good enough reason. That’s different.” In other words, the abuser’s problem lies above all in his belief that controlling or abusing his female partner is justifiable….

Lundy Bancroft, Why Does He Do That? Inside the Minds of Angry and Controlling Men (via seebster)

THIS BOOK SAVED MY LIFE AND I CANNOT RECOMMEND IT ENOUGH
EVERYONE ON EARTH SHOULD READ THIS *except abusers

(via theinconstantones)

If anyone needs a PDF or EPUB copy of this book hit me up.

notcisjustwoman:

Ruth Greenberg, one of the several moderators of the 'Discussing gender critical & gender identity' group on FB is an infiltrator of radical feminism who first appeared on the scene several years ago pretending to be the parent of a transgender child.

She posted under multiple names harassing and lying to radical feminist bloggers.

She was outted by Gallus Mag at GenderTrender, but somehow found a foothold in the radfem scene on FB where she was quickly accepted by a certain contingency of white, upper middle class women headed by Elizabeth Hungerford. At that time, she posted under yet another sock-puppet account, Lesley Smith. She changed her name on FB multiple times, finally settling on the Ruth Greenberg name that she still uses.

Now she moderates some of the largest radical feminist groups on FB and is involved in real life radical feminist events.

It’s no accident that this shit happens. This happens by design. It’s time to start policing our own borders, fellow radical feminists.

whenever I cry, the parrot climbs up in my face and makes little sigh noises while he tries to eat the tears off my cheeks.

Ruth Greenberg, one of the several moderators of the 'Discussing gender critical & gender identity' group on FB is an infiltrator of radical feminism who first appeared on the scene several years ago pretending to be the parent of a transgender child.

She posted under multiple names harassing and lying to radical feminist bloggers.

She was outted by Gallus Mag at GenderTrender, but somehow found a foothold in the radfem scene on FB where she was quickly accepted by a certain contingency of white, upper middle class women headed by Elizabeth Hungerford. At that time, she posted under yet another sock-puppet account, Lesley Smith. She changed her name on FB multiple times, finally settling on the Ruth Greenberg name that she still uses.

Now she moderates some of the largest radical feminist groups on FB and is involved in real life radical feminist events.

It’s no accident that this shit happens. This happens by design. It’s time to start policing our own borders, fellow radical feminists.

glueandpieces:

notcisjustwoman:

me to my little brother.
I say some pretty OK stuff sometimes.
Now if I could just listen to myself.

Take your own advice ^.^

I try, I really do.

glueandpieces:

notcisjustwoman:

me to my little brother.

I say some pretty OK stuff sometimes.

Now if I could just listen to myself.

Take your own advice ^.^

I try, I really do.